Need Advice: My Daughter Thinks I’m Crazy and Won’t Let Me See My Granddaughter

Hey everyone,

I really need some advice and support right now. My name is Ruby, and I’m in a bit of a tough spot with my daughter, Ellie. Recently, I’ve been trying to focus more on my personal life and do things that make me happy. I finally feel like I have a life outside of just being a mom and grandma. But here’s the kicker: Ellie thinks I’m losing it and has forbidden me from seeing my granddaughter, Vivian.

I don’t know what to do. I love my granddaughter to bits, and it breaks my heart not to be able to see her. Ellie says I’m acting like a “wariatka” (crazy person) because I’ve been more spontaneous and maybe a bit unconventional lately. I guess she’s not used to seeing me this way, but I don’t think it’s fair to cut me off from Vivian.

Has anyone else been through something similar? How did you handle it? I want to respect Ellie’s feelings, but I also want to show her that I’m still the same person, just happier and more fulfilled. Any tips on how to approach this situation without making things worse? Should I try to talk to Ellie directly, or maybe get someone like my friend Roy or Michael to mediate?

Thanks in advance for any advice you can give. I’m really at a loss here and just want to make things right.

Cheers,

Ruby