Need Advice: Husband Upset About Me Talking to My Ex-Mother-in-Law

Hey everyone,

I really need some advice and thought this would be the best place to get some honest opinions. So, here’s the deal: my husband, Kyle, is really upset that I still talk to my ex-mother-in-law. He thinks it’s weird and unnecessary, but I don’t see it that way at all. My ex-MIL, Gianna, and I have always had a great relationship, and just because my previous marriage ended doesn’t mean I want to cut her out of my life completely.

Kyle thinks that maintaining this relationship is disrespectful to him and our marriage. I’ve tried explaining that my communication with Gianna is purely friendly and has no hidden meanings or intentions. It’s not like we’re talking every day or anything, just occasional check-ins and catching up. But he just doesn’t get it.

I really don’t want this to become a bigger issue than it already is. I love Kyle and respect his feelings, but I also value the bond I have with Gianna. How can I convince him that this communication is harmless and doesn’t threaten our relationship? Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you handle it?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks,

Ellie