Help! My Son is Yelling at Me About Trust Issues

Hey everyone,

I really need some advice. My son, James, just had a massive outburst, and I’m feeling pretty lost. He yelled at me, “Musisz wszystko przepisać na mnie! Dlaczego jej uwierzyłaś? Ona chce cię oszukać!” which translates to “You need to transfer everything to me! Why did you believe her? She wants to deceive you!”

Here’s the backstory: I’ve been talking to this woman, Charlotte, who has been helping me with some financial decisions. James thinks she’s trying to scam me and is furious that I trust her. He insists that I should transfer all my assets to him instead.

I get that he’s worried about me, but his approach is really stressing me out. I don’t want to make any hasty decisions, and I definitely don’t want to ruin my relationship with my son. But at the same time, I don’t want to dismiss his concerns if there’s any truth to them.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you handle it? Should I trust James and cut ties with Charlotte, or should I try to get more information before making any decisions? Any advice on how to calm things down and have a rational conversation with James would be super helpful.

Thanks in advance!