Feeling Like a Guest in My Own Daughter’s Home

Hey everyone,

I really need some advice. My mom, Eva, moved in with me a few months ago because she’s getting older and needed some extra help. At first, everything seemed fine, but lately, she’s been feeling like she’s just a guest in my home rather than part of the family. It’s breaking my heart to see her like this, and I want to make things better for her.

I think part of the problem is that she had her own space and routines for so long, and now everything’s changed. She doesn’t feel comfortable making herself at home, and I can tell she’s holding back from doing things she used to enjoy, like cooking or gardening. I want her to feel like this is her home too, not just mine.

I’ve tried talking to her about it, but she just brushes it off and says she’s fine. I know she’s not, though. I want to find a way to make her feel more included and comfortable here. Maybe some of you have been through something similar or have ideas on how to make this transition easier for her?

Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance!

• Kaylee