My Ex-Husband Showed Up After 12 Years – What Should I Do?

Hey everyone,

I really need some advice and support right now. So, here’s the deal: 12 years ago, my husband Vincent left me for another woman. It was a really tough time for me, and I had to rebuild my life from scratch. I haven’t heard a peep from him since then, and honestly, I thought I’d never see him again.

Fast forward to last night, I’m chilling at home, and suddenly there’s a knock on my door. I open it, and there he is – Vincent, standing on my doorstep like no time has passed. I was completely shocked and didn’t know what to say or do. He looked different, older, but still the same Vincent I once loved.

He started apologizing and saying he made a huge mistake leaving me. He wants to talk and maybe even try to make things right. But I’m so confused! Part of me wants to slam the door in his face for all the pain he caused me, but another part of me is curious about what he has to say.

I’ve moved on with my life, but seeing him brought back so many memories and emotions. I don’t know if I should give him a chance to explain or just tell him to leave and never come back.

What would you do if you were in my shoes? Has anyone else been through something similar? Any advice or words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks,

Valentina