Struggling with Family Dynamics: Need Your Advice!

Hey everyone,

I really need some advice and support right now. I’m in a bit of a tough spot and could use some outside perspectives. Here’s the deal: I absolutely adore my son, Nathan. He’s always been my rock, and we have such a strong bond. But when it comes to my daughter, Eva, things are… complicated. I hate to admit it, but I struggle with feelings of resentment and even hatred towards her.

I know it sounds terrible, and trust me, I feel awful about it. I want to love her just as much as I love Nathan, but something inside me just won’t let me. It’s been eating me up inside, especially now that I’m getting older. I don’t want to carry these feelings with me forever.

Eva is a good kid, and she doesn’t deserve this. I think part of the problem is that she reminds me a lot of my ex, and our relationship ended on a really bad note. But I know that’s not fair to her. She’s her own person, and she deserves to be loved and appreciated for who she is.

I’ve tried talking to my friends about it, but they don’t really understand. They just tell me to “get over it” or “fake it till you make it,” but it’s not that simple. I want to genuinely change how I feel, not just put on a facade.

So, I’m turning to you all. Have any of you been in a similar situation? How did you handle it? What steps can I take to start mending my relationship with Eva? Any advice or personal stories would be greatly appreciated. I just want to be a better parent and person.

Thanks in advance for your help!