“Father Told His Son He Ate Steak and Fruit, While He Survived on Cheap Oatmeal”
John had always been a hardworking man. After dedicating over 40 years of his life to the construction industry, he finally retired at the age of 65. He had always believed that his pension, though modest, would be enough to sustain him. He dreamed of spending his golden years in relative comfort, enjoying simple pleasures like a good meal and occasional outings with friends.
However, reality hit John hard. The cost of living had skyrocketed, and his pension barely covered the essentials. He found himself cutting corners wherever he could. His meals became simpler and less nutritious. Instead of the steak and fresh fruit he once enjoyed, he now subsisted on cheap oatmeal made with water.
John’s son, Mike, was a successful lawyer living in a different state. They spoke on the phone regularly, and John always tried to put on a brave face. He didn’t want Mike to worry about him. So, when Mike asked about his meals, John lied. He told his son that he was eating well—steak, fresh fruit, and all the things he knew Mike would want to hear.
“How’s the food, Dad?” Mike would ask during their weekly calls.
“Oh, it’s great! I had a nice steak and some fresh fruit for dinner last night,” John would reply, forcing a smile that Mike couldn’t see.
In reality, John was eating oatmeal for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. He couldn’t afford much else. The oatmeal was bland and tasteless, but it was cheap and filling. He added a bit of sugar when he could afford it, but most days it was just plain oats and water.
John’s health began to deteriorate. He lost weight and felt constantly tired. His doctor warned him that his diet was lacking essential nutrients, but John didn’t see any other option. He couldn’t afford to eat better.
One day, Mike decided to surprise his father with a visit. He hadn’t seen John in over a year and wanted to check on him. When he arrived at John’s small apartment, he was shocked by what he saw. The place was sparsely furnished, and there was hardly any food in the kitchen.
“Dad, what’s going on? Where’s all the food you said you were eating?” Mike asked, his voice filled with concern.
John sighed and looked down at the floor. “I didn’t want you to worry, Mike. I thought I could manage on my own.”
Mike felt a pang of guilt. He had been so caught up in his own life that he hadn’t realized how much his father was struggling. He immediately took John grocery shopping and filled his kitchen with nutritious food.
But the damage had already been done. John’s health continued to decline despite the improved diet. The years of malnutrition had taken their toll. He became weaker and more frail with each passing day.
Mike tried to make up for lost time by visiting more often and ensuring his father had everything he needed. But it was too late. John passed away quietly in his sleep one cold winter night.
Mike was devastated. He couldn’t shake the feeling that he had failed his father. The guilt weighed heavily on him as he sorted through John’s belongings. Among them, he found a small notebook where John had written down his thoughts.
“I thought my pension would be enough,” one entry read. “I never wanted to be a burden to anyone.”
Mike realized that his father had sacrificed so much to protect him from worry. It was a bittersweet revelation that left him with a deep sense of loss and regret.