Feeling Lost Without Mom: Need Your Advice

Hey everyone,

I’m really struggling right now and could use some advice. My mom passed away recently, and I’m finding it incredibly hard to cope with the guilt and regret I’m feeling. I keep thinking about all the times I took her for granted or didn’t appreciate her enough. Now, standing by her grave, I feel like there’s no one left to ask for forgiveness.

I was really close to my mom, but like everyone, we had our ups and downs. There were times when I was too busy with my own life to give her the attention she deserved. Now, I can’t help but feel like I failed her in some way. I keep replaying our last conversations in my head, wishing I had said or done things differently.

I’ve talked to a few friends about it, but I still feel this heavy weight on my chest. Larry suggested I write a letter to her, even though she’s gone, to express everything I’m feeling. Kyle mentioned that I should try to focus on the good memories and the love we shared. Benjamin thinks I should seek out a support group for people who’ve lost a parent. Lillian, Neveah, and Harper have all been super supportive, but I still feel lost.

Has anyone else been through something similar? How did you cope with the guilt and find a way to forgive yourself? Any advice or personal stories would be really appreciated. Thanks for taking the time to read this and for any help you can offer.