Seeking Advice: How to Handle My Retired Mom’s Constant Complaints

Hi everyone,

I hope you’re all doing well. I’m reaching out because I’m in a bit of a tough spot and could really use some advice. My mom, Lillian, recently retired and has been spending a lot of time at home. While I understand that retirement can be a big adjustment, she’s been constantly complaining about being bored.

The problem is, I have two young children, Aria and Joshua, and my hands are full with them. Between taking care of the kids and managing household chores, I barely have a moment to myself. My mom’s constant complaints are starting to wear me down, and I’m feeling overwhelmed.

I’ve tried suggesting hobbies and activities she might enjoy, but nothing seems to interest her. I’m considering giving her an ultimatum: either find something to do or help out more around the house. But I’m worried this might strain our relationship.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you handle it? Any advice on how to approach this conversation with my mom would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you in advance for your help!

Best,

Harper