Recently, my sister invited me over to her house for a casual tea and chat session. Victoria is a family woman, married with three kids. Just three weeks ago, she celebrated her 35th birthday. I also have a brother named Matthew, who is 32, and I am 28 years old. My younger siblings, David and Avery, are still in college. When I decided to bring a simple, heartfelt gift of apples to Victoria’s house, I never expected the day to end with me being literally pushed out the door.