"Can't You See Your Mother Doesn't Love Our Son?": Enduring Comparisons Until It Went Too Far

“Can’t You See Your Mother Doesn’t Love Our Son?”: Enduring Comparisons Until It Went Too Far

A daughter-in-law often remains an outsider in the eyes of her mother-in-law. For 10 years of marriage to Justin, Ariana never even tried to win over his mother, Geraldine. It’s unfortunate that Geraldine’s dissatisfaction now extends to their son, Aaron. Ariana and Justin met during their freshman year of college, young, carefree, and broke. Over five years, they realized

"My Daughter Resents Me for Not Providing Financial Support Like Her In-Laws Do"

“My Daughter Resents Me for Not Providing Financial Support Like Her In-Laws Do”

Recently, my only daughter, Ella, criticized me for not giving her money, pointing out that her in-laws constantly support them financially. How can she compare me, an elderly retiree, to her in-laws who are thriving 40-year-old entrepreneurs? I had Ella quite late in life, at the age of 45, after many years of trying with my husband. But our circumstances are vastly different

"Mom Knows Best, My Wife Always Says": Mother-in-Law's Grip Tightens on Our Family Life

“Mom Knows Best, My Wife Always Says”: Mother-in-Law’s Grip Tightens on Our Family Life

Every man fears marrying a woman who can’t cut the apron strings, but women should also beware. My beloved wife, Victoria, remains her mother Lily’s little girl, and the most surprising part is that I didn’t see it coming. Whether I was too smitten or they were too good at hiding it, I’m not sure. While I understand the occasional need for an outsider’s perspective, as they say, a mother’s