"Should I Forgive My Husband Who Came Crawling Back? I Don't Want My Life to Stay the Same, But I Also Don't Want Him Back"

“Should I Forgive My Husband Who Came Crawling Back? I Don’t Want My Life to Stay the Same, But I Also Don’t Want Him Back”

After 12 years of marriage, my husband and I divorced. Statistically, most marriages that end in divorce do so within the first seven years, or so the experts say. As the years go by, the likelihood of divorce supposedly decreases. I guess I wasn’t so lucky. It’s a common story, really. Sad, but common. He found himself a younger woman. Now, he’s back, asking for forgiveness, but I’m torn.