"Should I Forgive My Husband Who Came Crawling Back? I Don't Want My Life to Stay the Same, But I Also Don't Want Him Back"

“Should I Forgive My Husband Who Came Crawling Back? I Don’t Want My Life to Stay the Same, But I Also Don’t Want Him Back”

After 12 years of marriage, my husband and I divorced. Statistically, most marriages that end in divorce do so within the first seven years, or so the experts say. As the years go by, the likelihood of divorce supposedly decreases. I guess I wasn’t so lucky. It’s a common story, really. Sad, but common. He found himself a younger woman. Now, he’s back, asking for forgiveness, but I’m torn.

"How Quickly Life Passed By, All Those Years. And How They Became Unnecessary to Their Grown Children": She Couldn't Listen Any Longer, Her Eyes Filled with Tears

“How Quickly Life Passed By, All Those Years. And How They Became Unnecessary to Their Grown Children”: She Couldn’t Listen Any Longer, Her Eyes Filled with Tears

Linda has three children who have long since left the family home. Her eldest son lives abroad with his family. He moved out at a very young age and has never seen his mother since. Only photos, letters, and holiday wishes remain. Linda carefully keeps everything and often, especially on winter evenings, she looks through them and reads. “Son, we miss you so much…”