"That's Women's Work, You Do It": My Seven-Year-Old Son Refused to Clean Up His Toys. My Patience and Desire to Be the Perfect Wife Vanished

“That’s Women’s Work, You Do It”: My Seven-Year-Old Son Refused to Clean Up His Toys. My Patience and Desire to Be the Perfect Wife Vanished

It’s hard for me to be such an imperfect wife when my mother, grandmother, and sister are perfect homemakers. My grandmother raised my mother with the principle that a wife should be able to do everything. The house is clean, meals are prepared, husband’s shirts are ironed, and the children’s homework is done. Most importantly, a woman should contribute to the household budget